Yes, Caliguy I agree that it is not about the A although that makes it much tougher to bear but it is about them, their childhood chit, their FOO chit, and a lot of other things rolled into one. I truly understand that.
However,since she has filed, I have no choice - sure I can delay as much as I can but then my kids go without due to financial strains she has put on us - walking away from the mortgage being the biggest. So, it's not just about me but about my kids an their financial future.
