So its been quite the emotionally draining week....

I'll keep this short but XW has said she is introducing OM1 to the kids on Saturday and she has taken her profile of the dating site, so assumption is its going well. She did acknowledge that she knows it hurts me which is something I guess. She hasn't noticed that she seems to have picked the weekend of father's day for the introduction.

A couple of exchanges since which have been more cordial and chatty still short but different from silence. If I had to guess I would say that having properly told me she can be more open (her last exchange included that she was on her way back from London which is where OM lives) and that helps her relax a bit.

On Monday I was at a work thing and sat next to me was my XF who I haven't seen in about 6 years. Let's just say it was odd. I apologised to her for hurting her in the way I did and said I was glad she was happy now. We had a brief chat and I found it tricky.

I now have over a week until I see the kids again which is hard.

So all in all pretty tricky emotionally.

Oh and foo fighters got cancelled which upsets my plans for the weekend significantly.

All said and done though I don't feel too bad just a bit sad. Will be fine by Monday and I'm being outwardly positive in the meantime.

Have a good evening folks


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress