So freaking hard. I get advice from so many many people all who say something different. She is divorcing me so I have only a little control over it. I can't stop the process but I can make it slower - maybe.
Yes, I agree she is in CRISIS but the daily hurt and devastaion financially emotionally spiritually is almost too much to bear.
Once I get the papers back from my L I will review and review and review and see how long I can stall it out.
I am doing what I can to stay out of her way, focus on me and kids and trying to carry on.
9 months is a lot. I don't think I can do 2-3 years. I really don't. I will do the best that I can.
Thanks for the support and words of advice.
Best - HEAVY
P.S. I am so vey happy for y'all. You are an inspiration to so many.
