I would be upset, too, skhdive. Sorry to hear your day started out this way.
I love what you added, "I can't change the fact I wasn't invited and so I need to let it go and move on with my day. It is what it is."
That's the spirit.
I'll try to check in on your sitch later today.
We are here for you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15