Sunny - I understand that completely and have had those exact thoughts (good thing W&I are not like that / that will NEVER happen to us crazy).

I knew very few people that are divorced, but many that we would say - "why on earth are they married?"

I am starting to talk a little to people I am close to about my situation and they seem to not be judgmental in front of me anyway.

I think there will be many things that will make me feel a whole lot better - I see - nice one wink


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015