It doesn't require an urgent answer. Interesting though that she's pressing for me to reply. I can understand the S9 thing even though I said I'd contact her about it tomorrow.
I've seen it before on here where the kids are used as an excuse for contact that turns into a temp check. Hence need to be really careful.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.