Yes, all about detachment - the single biggest issue I wrestle with.
Every day is a new day and I try to not get involved in her baloney anymore. It is hard becasue of me and my mindset, I take full respnsibility and also we have two little kids that we co parent.
She views me as the ENEMY because I wont mediate with her - tried that. I am the evil one that prevents her from getting her way. I wonder if this is the way our relationship will be from this point onwards. If so, that is depressing.
Per Wonka's suggestions, I have been extra polite, take extra helpings of STFU smoothies and just try not to react to her craziness. I sure do miss that woman I used to know and be married to. However, I am OK and am living my life without her. the focus is on ME, my KIDS and our well being.
