Thanks Toots - He seemed to be "on board" with making this as simple and non-confrontational as possible to keep fees down, but sometimes that is not controllable depending on the other party.

I thought I was "over" those feeling of comparing myself to OM, and feeling like it is my fault. I guess those feelings are somewhere in there yet.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015