Something that I said caused her to ask me if I felt shame or guilt about this whole mess. I didn't really know what the difference between these two things. As I described my reluctance to tell anyone about my situation, and how people might think this or that, or that we got D because u-turn is too boring or too quiet or not forceful enough, are feelings of guiltshame. I don't know what this means for me, but it seems to be something I should address.
Damnit - I messed that one up, meant to say shame - see, I guess I really don't know the difference
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015