"It's so hard not to try and make them see the light, Fogg. But I know it's futile at best, counterproductive at worst."

Well said Diff - our wisdom is the last thing the WAS wants. They'll run a mile from that! And probably the wisdom of well-meaning friends too. At this point, they only want to spend time with people who will support (or at least not loudly challenge) their actions.

Normally that changes in time, but those changes happen within. It is much better to leave it all alone and let it percolate quietly within the WAS.

Keep going Diff, you're doing really well :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus