That's why as much as I admire GB and welcome what he has to say the direct approach will just blow up in my face. In the early days I did just that type of thing and now look at the state of us.
Something to keep in mind... Early on in the relationship things were good, and that is when the spouse falls in love with the person you are. Perhaps over time you have moved away from that form of problem solving, or perhaps that technique no longer works. It is important for you to understand what happened, so that you can incorporate the proper 180s.
Does that make sense?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
