I just read up on your sitch. Sorry you are here, but you will find some great people and great advice.
Have you stopped making your H's coffee, preparing is lunch, and getting his clothes ready? With the way he us treating you, I would let him deal with those things. He is acting like a teenager and you are not his mom.
What GAL do you have planned for the weekend?
BW
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015