What's next?

[Lifes Twists]

I agree that now is not the time to respond or send a note. If he was at a point where he was receptive to it then yes it might open his eyes a bit. Not right now. My experience with my exW is that when she was in the full blown fog bank nothing could get through. She would be even more angry and nasty if I said or pointed something out or even just defended myself. Right now your dealing with a nasty little fly that keeps buzzing you while you are doing your own thing. You just need to keep swooshing it away and hope it finds something else to bother.