Hi VGE, it is great news about your health. Praise God Who heals!
I am so sorry for you about your H taking money out of the account, so that he an go have his fun. Try and keep these things in perspective. Your health is so much more important than paying this month's bills.
I know how stressful paying bills can be. But your H's cruelty? There's little that you can do about that. I don't know what your Court Orders say, but if your H has violated them, an attorney might be able to get an emergency order before he takes off on his vacation.