Sorry, a misunderstanding. W's message finished with a kiss.
W called this morning and tells me she's a lot better. We had about five minutes of conversation. She sounded like old W. At the end of the conversation W said 'bye love' and then paused. I said 'see you later'. Normally we would have had a 'love you' in there. I don't know if she wanted that, so I didn't.
Think it's good that you didn't say that.. She is a bit vulnerable now and I think it would have felt good for her if you had said it just as a reassurance for her when she's low. But she knows that the reason you didn't is because of your stitch, one that she is very much in charge of.
So I would keep all that stuff on the down low for now and even though it's hard let her feel the difference of going through things with or without you.
Keep up the good work, dear Huddy. Hugs!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
