One thing that I wanted to mention as well that may be important. At one of the early mediation sessions the mediator had said to me about 'End of relationship' therapy. Yes, they are good at breaking up M's in this country. Anyway I refused but W has mentioned this to me again.
Bearing in mind this is a tightrope we are walking I think this is important simply because anything I say will be held against this statement. I can't afford to come across as desperate or attached.
That's why as much as I admire GB and welcome what he has to say the direct approach will just blow up in my face. In the early days I did just that type of thing and now look at the state of us.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
