Personally I don't think she's confused but since I don't know her, it's only my speculation. I think the reason you got a reply of this kind is just because your email was very void of the emotions your first draft had, and I think if you'd sent that she would have curled back due to being overwhelmed.
I'm soon off to my therapist and God knows I need it!
Big hug!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5