Hi NDY,

Thanks for your reply, and you are right. I am early in the process and it is so hard to get a grip of this GAL and DETACH business. Just feels so unreal that he could just drop me like a hot potato and start up with someone new. Makes me feel very unimportant to him and makes me think that nothing we shared was special to him.

Do you mind explaining the rake over ashes part? Don't think I've ever heard it and don't forget I'm a Swede.. wink

Going to check up on your stitch now.

Big hug!


M: 44 H: 43
ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect.
"This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15
Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15
It's over: 9/5