Wonka, not sure about her being scared to return to the M. To her there is no M to return to.
GB. I hear what you are saying but I don't think she's confused in the way you may think. I've always maintained that I don't want a D but won't stand in her way if she wants to pursue one which is why her question was so surprising.
I'd like to see this email as well.
Peace.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.