Last - what I maybe could have said in a less snide manner is that you've already been down this road. Why are you going back down this tunnel - you already know there's no cheese there!
This is a long process. I've been here two months - it feels like a lifetime, and yet I understand I may have many more before my W even considers R with me. So use the time. Really use it.
Matt - It always brings me joy to get someone to laugh.
Last - Both MrBond and Matt have great points. I've been DBing almost 8 months and I made many of the same mistakes you are making in the beginning. I know it's not easy. When is the last time you reviewed Sandi's Rules? I know Cadet posted the link when you first joined our forum.
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
