I've been wondering about you! I think keeping everything dark is a good idea. I'd love to hear what others think.
I do have a question for you. Did you tend to do a little cleaning each evening before? If you did, I say keep doing it. If you did not, W's going to catch on, if she hasn't already, that you are doing this to try to win her back.
That kind of jumped out at me.
Hang in there!
{{{{DifRent}}}}
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15