Toots, thank you for your input, and warning. I guess the curious is more of a 2x4 to w saying wtf are you doing. This was your choice and decision. Why are you not happy and thrilled that I've done everything you wanted me to do in the beginning.
of course, you know this^^ will yank her chain and she will NOT say "You're right! I"m not happy at all with my choices. I MISS YOU".
No, she'll do everything possible to believe/act as if she is thrilled with her brilliant honorable choices. Always always ask yourself what the REAL Goal is in your answer and then be honest, brutally honest
about whether your desired comment is going to do anything positive for that goal. Usually, it won't. Don't make this about her being wrong. Make this about you being happy.
Except for the continued pineing and groveling over her still. I think that is where things changed. I know now that I will be ok, and I think she has seen this as well.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
