Man I really, am getting frustrated with my W now. She seems to find every chance to text me. She is now asking me when I leave the island and report to my next duty station. I asked her why it was so important that she knew, but I gave her the information anyhow. This is what I get back in reply.
W-Honestly I get an uneasy feeling about when you are leaving. I am having a hard time trusting what you say because you keep changing your story on me. This is important information because we need to talk about paperwork and how we are going to get a hold of eachother in the future until everything is completely separated.
This was my response.
M-Listen, lets not talk about trust being hard to have ok! Secondly what I am doing is what's best for me. Honestly There is nothing you truly need to know about my situation. I always have email and I will always answer back. You already know my stance on everything. Once I receive the divorce paperwork I will sign and not contest anything as long as you do what we agreed upon as far as splitting things. If you feel there is more to talk about please let me know. But I have been honest with you from the start of this split. even when I didn't have to be. So I am not sure why you are uneasy, what does me leaving have anything to do with you? It's not like our lives cross other than the dogs anyhow. Accept for that possible chance I see you out in town or at work but that will end soon. If there is something you need let me know.
I probably said too much but I am just so confused by now as to WTF she is up too. I'm actually really curious.
I would not read much into her behavior.
She has TINY legit issues of logistical concerns, and is projecting her distrust onto you. See, she may well assume you cheated on her b/c hey, she's a great person -and she cheated. See? It all makes sense now!
Anyhow, I'm going to go thru your response and make some suggestions. I'm not sure of it all but I do believe that there is power in brevity.
The more details you provide, the more there is for her to nitpick (which is why candidates stay away from details)
AND OR
the vaguer or conflicted you'll sound, which is not a position of power.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
