Don't beat yourself up too much for not having an answer, just keep listening and putting yourself in her shoes.
Hello Zephyr,
I was going to advise the exact same thing Fogg did. Please go easy on yourself. I am the same way, many times. You are not alone.
Please try to keep a PMA!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15