Wife is being a negative creep and seethes anger. I let it slide off my back. Tra la la. She is acting like a troll. A very ill behaved troll.
Hey Heavy,
I'm so sorry to hear what an awful day you are having. I hope you post as many times as you feel like it today or any day. We all have to vent! Look at how I "cracked" when my W sent me that nasty "out of the blue" text last Friday.
I love the quote above. Good for you -- let it slide off your back like water off a duck's back. I am SO impressed.
Your W is angry at herself, but she taking out on you, my dear.
I can't remember at the moment if you are a believer. If not, please accept my apology in advance for posting a prayer below. If you are, you may want to say this prayer from time to time. It helps keep my anger in check. Too bad our spouses don't do the same.
"Lord God, I am hurt, angry, and confused. I don’t like this feeling of worthlessness and rejection. I know You are the God of peace. Teach me how to accept and assimilate that inner peace. It seems so far away sometimes. Amen."
My point is, don't let your W drag you down to her level. And, knowing you, you won't let her!
Chin up, Heavy.
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Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
