First post. Desperate for advice.

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That sounds like you a doing a lot of great self discovery! Keep it up!

What are you doing for GAL activities?

I am working on GAL.

So far:
nightly workout
reading DR and NMMNG while doing the activities within
saw a movie alone
planning a fishing trip alone or with a friend

My main issue is that she is home all day with the girls while I work. I get home and she wants me to take the kids (this I get). That's my time with them. So I have very limited time in the evenings to engage in activities.

This is not an excuse. I am still going to solve this problem. It's just harder in my situation.