Responses to old thread Job Yes this I believe is from childhood issues of being poor. H portrays to the world that he is this confident man, but I often see a truer picture of him. He has always spent a lot of time on how he looks, the clothes he wears. He also does not let people get close to who he really is. He is a quiet person who keeps to himself a lot with only a few friends.
Mighty I agree, and YES I will "DO ME". I can dress myself, and I know when something looks right or not.
Toots Yes these are some deep issues in my H that he needs to work out within himself.
Soo...I went to an event with some friends, H saw me getting dressed and said "I really like that jumpsuite, maybe you can wear it to the wedding" I just shook my head and smiled and said "actually this was one of my options I was thinking about wearing" I then showed him another dress (I know feeding the monster) and he was like "I like that one too"
I just told him again "thanks for the advice and don't worry about what I'm wearing" "I will be all good"
I'm going to let it go, from now on WHEN he "helps" me dress I will say "thanks" and wear whatever I planned on wearing, this is an ongoing issue that I just need to stop addressing for now.
I did tell him "IF I ask for your advice, its when I'm trying to decide on something and I appreciate your input" But other then that, I'm good and will wear what I want.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
