PP, Matt, Teach, Zephyr, and Toots, thank you so much for reassuring me that I'm making the right move! I woke up this morning feeling calm, so I too think I made the right choice. A change that I choose to make rather than it being forced on me.
Toots, I will try really hard not to worry about the fall and my H. I know what he does is his concern, but I still have problems detaching. Hopefully, with the return for me to full time work, I will find it easier.
Now, speaking of my H, he informed me last night that he is doing a hiking/camping trip the 4th of July weekend. I said, "That sounds like fun!" and left it at that as I was headed out to teach agility.
Do I ask him where, if he's going alone, anything? Or just leave it at what I already said?
If I find if I ever don't know what to do or say, it's better to just do or say nothing. What information will you get by asking....some story he already has planned to tell you. It's not like he would ACTUALLY tell you if he was going with someone you disapprove of.
