Xh sent something to d14 today. She read it to me like 100mph. It was something like,
Im sorry, I'm not perfect. I'm sorry you feel you weren't good enough. Like I said, it didn't work out with me and your mom. You and s18 mean everything to me. So you have to work with me. I'm sorry I'm not in love with your mom, but I love you very much.
He is being insincere, dishonest, and disingenuous with these comments. I do think you really need to take your power back and put your foot down on his nonsense by sending that email Ellie pulled together. That will accomplish a few things:
-you aren't putting up with his revisionist POV -you aren't putting up with his childish slanders against you -you clearly spell out your position -you clearly show him that R with the kids is HIS responsibility -demonstrate that he needs to take ownership for the fractured R's w/ kids
