Quote: I thought he was going to get a home equity loan to buy me out of the marriage....so now what am I signing and why?
Ask him to explain what he wants to you. If you are in any doubt about being part of this, say you need time to think about it and will get back to him about it. Don't sign anything you are unsure about under pressure. Keep upbeat!
Good luck!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
I did bible study today, and am going biking. Will bike tomorrow if the girls go,too. Don't want him to think I have NO LIFE without him.
Will get home from biking, make angel food cake and cut up strawberries. Bought some whip cream.
Treatment center says it may be Monday now. Will be at least Friday. That's ok. I can wait.
H is still very set on D. Said he is not sure if he wants to keep or sell the house. Our new chairs should be here tonight. So sad. They were our anniversary gift to ourselves.
Well, I will post before he gets home. Gotta get ready to go biking.
Hugs and prayers and thanks for all the support, Akgal.
Quote: So...any advice out there? I mean for the time I am going to get to spend with H? I'm shocked because I thought he would stay at his folks' house when he found out I was still going to be here. Help you guys!
How should I act?
Act like a friend. Be the good parts of yourself.
Quote: What should I do?
Do your normal things. Do what you'd do for a friend or relative who's visiting. Don't pressure him or argue with him.
Quote: Advice, please!
Let him see that you're taking responsibility for fixing the problems in your life. Let him see that you're getting your act together. You're taking some big steps to get your life straightened out. He'll see that.
Just stopping in to say hi and send good thoughts your way. Hope the visit is going well and DON'T argue against the D...remember validate his feelings...cause he really doesn't know what the hell he wants...except that he doesn't want the OLD MESSED UP YOU....so don't be that person!!!
