I'm sorry that your H is acting that way right now. Mine just withdraws and sulks. I've gotten better at ignoring that, where I used to try and pacify him. I do ask if he wants to talk, but if he says no, I say a very airy "ok" and move on.
I think it was Cadet that asked me how old my H was acting. How old do you think your H is acting right now?
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out