Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Ok so here is where we left off. WW sent this in an email:
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Can I ask you a question though? What so you think is the alternative to separation and/or divorce? This is not meant to be a confrontational question. I am interested in understanding what you think is a workable alternative so I have a better understanding of your thoughts on this. I am hoping you will get back to me to give me more insight because it is this particular area that I feel I don’t understand your stance or the future that you envisage.
I've noticed her language has taken on a more prozac feeling to it. This will be in response to how I communicate to her. All very business like until the [censored] hits the fan.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
A quick question to tie together some lose ends in my head before opting in your new thread.
Is your W living at her folks' house now since she stormed out of your house more than a week ago?
Hi wonka. No, she is now at SIL's which is good because SIL only lives 5 minutes away so S9 can visit when ever he wants. He's allowed to go between the two houses unsupervised.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
You feel what you feel now...it is what it is. However, you MUST tamper down those expectations fast otherwise you'll find yourself in a bad emotional place...crashing down to Earth.
I need to be real here.
Things will get much, much WORSE now before it get better. I don't think you've seen the worst of it, buddy.
You feel what you feel now...it is what it is. However, you MUST tamper down those expectations fast otherwise you'll find yourself in a bad emotional place...crashing down to Earth.
I need to be real here.
Things will get much, much WORSE now before it get better. I don't think you've seen the worst of it, buddy.
Sorry, that wasn't what I meant. I was just impressed at the DB machine gearing up. That's all.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
