Still conditioned by guilt I guess. It's just that we shared everything for so long. When I would drop of the kids to school I would usually text "Drop off OK" or "Drop off not so good for D6". When I would leave for home I would text "Heading home in 10 mins" etc.... She would do the same but it was more me, the people pleaser.
So, I am having to learn to stop with those thought processes, learned behaviors. Hard Hard Hard for me.
