Pushing on

[NDY]

Hi GB. Thanks for the feedback once again. Need to start a new thread but thought I'd address a couple of things first

This email was terrible and now she's hoping you expand upon the "amicable legal resolution" you'd be willing to consider.

I'm not so sure. yes the amicable legal resolution is on her mind but that wasn't the context of her reply.

But negotiating the divorce goes against divorce busting where you want to drag out the divorce, detach, be nice, GAL and await the end of the affair.

Yep. she's called in the dogs now. And that usually ends in one way. So, by trying to get her back to the mediators I stall.

She may be wondering if you are suggesting some 3 party relationship, where you don't divorce, you don't separate, OM moves in and the three of you live together raising S9.

She knows I don't mean this. Funny but no.

Guys...what happened to "no expectations". Until you hear she's not with OM this ins't a "glimmer of hope" and it would be a mistake to build it up as one.

I have no expectations but given the fact that to her there has never been any 'alternative' to explore. For her it's done, over, finito. Just seeing the photons of those words is a glimmer of hope in as much as she may well listen to the fact that there IS an alternative.She may well still turn her nose up at it. Probably will but up until now you would NEVER have had my WW even ask such a question.