Guys...what happened to "no expectations". Until you hear she's not with OM this ins't a "glimmer of hope" and it would be a mistake to build it up as one. Disappointment drains your love bank.

Sure respond but make it authenticate. Something she will read when the affair eventually crumbles and she starts to wake up from the nightmare. Something that will say "if you hurry there may still be hope" or, if the affair lasts too long, "see what you threw away".

Such words will fall on deaf hurtful ears and she will attack the suggestion. So what. You are detached now and GAL'ing. Throw a party at the house this weekend, build a bridge and get over it.

The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!