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Thanks Smoothy. At the end of all this, we'll laugh about it...someday.


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Originally Posted By: Huddy
Three potential destructive bombs avoided tonight, so far.

Do I class that as a success? See if we can keep needy Huddy at bay!


You certainly do!! smile And I'm so pleased for you dear Huddy.
I sank like a atombomb over Hiroshima.. frown Your success so far is certainly worth a cheer! Be proud and keep it up!
As you say you have a long way to go before D. smile

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Hi Tulo

Nice to hear from you, hope you're feeling well. I still need to keep needy Huddy at bay. He surfaces sometimes when I'm alone.


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Not feeling to good to tell you the truth, but still so muddled about what happened so I need a little bit longer to put the sorded affair of my total lack of any DB or detaching skills to be put down in words.. Ashamed of what mess I made of it all. eek cry

But I just been out for yet another run, so if nothing else my next half marathon is destined to be a fast one.. wink

Big hug!


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Originally Posted By: Huddy
Hi Tulo

Nice to hear from you, hope you're feeling well. I still need to keep needy Huddy at bay. He surfaces sometimes when I'm alone.


Hi mate. I still recon you need to get out and breath.

I will be at home alone tonight. Rattling in that big house on my own. And I'm ok with that because for just a short while I can just relax and put this sh!t behind me.


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Hi NDY

Everyone is still here so it feels kinda normal. W says she's going away in a couple of weeks so that'll give me a bit of time to breathe.

Funny thing is, the Estate Agent was booked to come yesterday, but she never said a thing to me about it. I know they must have been because she had cleaned from top to bottom, but not a word from her, no paperwork for me to sign, nothing. Bizarre!


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Don't read too much into it. It'll all come out in the end. Have you ordered the book yet?


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Not yet. See there is one on Amazon for 1p! IN the middle of an investigation (no, I'm not a copper [Polis])right now, so am planning to get around to it today.


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Hey Huddy, at least it's a breather for you.


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Afternoon all

Well, weird day really. W phoned several times at 1230. Didn't see it ring. SD then texted to say W needed to go to hospital. Obviously, I rang W immediately.

W had collapsed at home with severe backpain. W managed to get herself to doctors, but needed admitting to A&E. I left work and came straight home. W was in pain but insisted on being stubborn.

W said she wanted me to take her to hospital, but not wait with her as the doctors might ask 'personal questions'. We've been together for 16.5 years, I know everything, so what a strange answer.

Drove W to hospital. W wanted just to get out of the car and walk in herself but she almost collapsed getting out of the car, with a grip of her mobile phone. I told her not to be stupid and walked her into admissions. W then told me to go and get the children from school (SD was going to do it but she can't really handle S).

At school I met her best friend. She was asking how W was doing and said could she visit her in hospital as she had 'nobody else'. I told her I was her husband and that was my job. W's friend then asked how I was and expressed concern at out current predicament and that W had told her 'nothing had happened' and she couldn't understand why W was running away. She then said she hoped we could sort it out. My thoughts exactly.

She has just texted my SD to say she's had a scan and is now awaiting results. I don't appear to be wanted again.


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