Newcomers - I know I found it hard to read "it will get better" when I first arrived here. I clearly remember thinking I didn't want to be here a year later. But the reality is you should take as long as you need. This time is a gift and if you treat it as such, you will reap the rewards. There's peace in me that hasn't existed in a long, long while and I think you'll find it, too, if you linger on the boards for a bit longer yet.
I certainly didn't intend to be here more than a few months. My entire plan was to wait it out until H lost his infatuation with the duck and then we could work it out. That's didn't work out for me. But I totally agree with you, gan, that there's a peace available if you'll put in the work, and the work takes time. Its been over a year since BD, and I'm still learning things. Truth is, if I'm smart, that process of learning will last forever.
But I totally agree with you, gan, that there's a peace available if you'll put in the work, and the work takes time. Its been over a year since BD, and I'm still learning things. Truth is, if I'm smart, that process of learning will last forever.
