I have also contacted a church that has support classes for separated/divorced ppl. Still waiting to hear on that

This is a great idea. I just completed phase 1 and it helped me a lot.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)