I suppose. I sincerely like my life and the way things have been progressing. My wife is not going anywhere, talks of our future together, and is giving me her best during the most difficult time in her life. Sure, I could bail on the marriage to go find that one piece that I feel is lacking, but doing that will hurt both of us greatly. I honestly don't see a pot of happiness for either of us at the end of any divorce rainbow.
My point of the snowball is that loving actions build more loving actions. It’s a good thing. I'm not sure why I wouldn’t want to foster it and see it continue to grow. Your thoughts regarding this please.
Cali! You and I both met our wives at the same, very young age of 18, and shared our entire lives with them. Something you wrote to me a while back...
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy on 9/17/14
Like you I keep my sense of humor, have had her in my life since 18 and haven't known anyone else, nor cared to. I have said it to people who don't understand ... I love once, sure it may not work out, one day I may have to send her out to sea, I know deep to the core of me I will never love another the way I loved her. How could I .... 24 years? (Adds fingers in head) ... yeah
Do you still feel this way? After 36 years with my wife, I do.
Originally Posted By: BrightFuture
I’m your cheerleader! I’m rooting for you and your W to create a new and amazing R!
Thank you so much, Bright! I honestly feel what my wife and I have now is amazing! That's why I'm still in this. And the recent progress has been extra nice.
Bust On!
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M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
