Toots, thank you for your input, and warning. I guess the curious is more of a 2x4 to w saying wtf are you doing. This was your choice and decision. Why are you not happy and thrilled that I've done everything you wanted me to do in the beginning. Except for the continued pineing and groveling over her still. I think that is where things changed. I know now that I will be ok, and I think she has seen this as well.