Hi Mike - I'm in Michigan too. Must be something in the water here, huh?
Looks like it....
Mike,
Sorry you have to be here, hope you can find the support you need to get through this. I heard things such as ILYBNILWY, I want to be selfish for once, I want to do something for myself for once, I'm just not happy.
Many of the things we hear often indicate the same thing, OM. Its also possible her new friend has shown her the potential for the grass being greener on the other side. If the friend is just now finalizing her D she is likely still not seeing the negative effects it can cause, so everything she says might seen great to W.
My W's new friends popped up after BD and she began buying new clothes, chasing OM,and wanting to hang out with friends and be the single party girl. Regardless of what it is, its about her not you. Shes searching for some void to fill in herself and likely doing all the wrong things to find it. This experience can be life changing for you, it all depends if you let it change you in a positive way. Do the work and you will come out OK no matter what.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
