I'm sorry you're hurting for D14. I know it's painfully unfair. You just received another ugly glimpse of where his head is at.
It helps me to gain some perspective when that injustice ball gets rolling in my head... Googling narcissism on psych c. or the old resource posts on here. It helps me to recalibrate by refreshing my memory about where his head is at... The reality of his head space. Just seeing how far out there he is, it helps me by validating the insanity and putting things into perspective.
Your ex sounds like a very angry, immature teen who feels the need to blame you to a teenage girl who is pouring her heart out. That's the harsh reality of who he is today.
Pull away from the temptation to focus on the insanity of what he is saying about you...a bunch of gassy blow designed to draw attention away from his own self-created chaos.
Focus instead on D14 who opened herself up, only to get bludgeoned again. She needs the calm, loving, steady Mighty. She's already got one wackadoo dad :-(
I support your plan of action. No good will come of his choices. They just won't.
Last edited by LoisB; 06/17/1503:53 AM.
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