Sorry all these emotions are hitting you so hard Mozza, but pull yourself together and do what you need to do. This isnt easy, its [censored] hard, but you can and will do it. Protect yourself through the D as best you can and keep moving forward with your life. If you need to talk to the L about her assets, do it. Its possible they have already considered this and nothing is in her name anyway.

Originally Posted By: Mozza
I feel this is the end of DBing.


Not the end, back to the beginning of DBing. Have you forgot what DBing is for? YOU. Stop comparing how well things are going for her to how bad things might be going for you. Your value as a person does not increase or decrease because of anything to do with her. It might not be fair, but its life and you don't have control over it. You're a strong individual and going through normal emotions we all face. Stay the path and trust the process, W may not come back to you but you will come out stronger. Don't worry about what W comes out of this as, in the long run it means nothing to you. Letting that anger out to her wont do much to make those feelings go away, it will just be a temporary release.

Originally Posted By: Mozza
My stance at the moment is to let her live her life while I reflect and try to focus on me.


^^Back to this. Stop caring how she lives her life, just let her do it and focus on yourself. How can you change the parts of your life you're unhappy with now?

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be