As for all of this chit - it is the worst. The worst days are the beginning ones of course and the shock of it all is very distressing. I am sorry you are going through this.
You will learn a lot about yourself and how strong you are. Maybe that will surprise you. Yes it is true they seem to have a script or playbook they all read from. Now I am just ignoring her antics.
There is no rationalizing or reasoning with them. Your old marriage is dead at bomb drop. They left and fired us. So here we are.
Let her get used to being without you - in my opinion stop doing anything with her or doing anything for her. Do not pursue just live your life and act as if.
She seems to want to have this both ways - having the A but still wanting to snuggle with you and kissing your hand? Wtf?!
Stay strong - your wife sounds like all the other wayward wives - confused, making bad decisions and not realizing the natural consequences their actions will bring.
