Heavy, all I can say is that you've been slogging through this so long, you're an inspiration to me. I'm especially inspired when my W says things definitively and with a mean spirit like, "it's over, i don't love you anymore, you can't make me love you, i have a new gf, this is the new me, people change, you need to move on..." I mean, those comments make me feel despondent, but she is in the thick of her fantasy right now. I know patience is the virtue I need to cultivate, and you have been doing this for so long. I know you're weary, but also know that some of us new to this sort of mess see how you handle things with your WW, and how long you've handled them, and you give us courage and strength to fight the good fight.
So, thank you. You're in my thoughts and prayers... rooting for you now and always.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
