Affair Over but Stuck

[Painter]

It doesn't have to be way off the charts. I was bedridden when I was barely outside the normal range. It really can vary a lot from person to person how severe the symptoms are, and how they manifest.

It sounds like she is getting great care, though, so hopefully they will be able to find out more through further testing. Some cases of thyroid disease is caused by a small tumor in the pituitary gland and don't respond to treatment the same way.

You are certainly dealing with a difficult situation!
I can only suggest that you sit down and think about different scenarios for the future - what you would do and how you would handle things, what you would want and what you would not accept. That way you can start working towards goals for yourself.