I'm on this amazing vacation with my extended family and they keep telling me to face the fact that he said he was done and move on. I know they think they are helping me but it hurts so much.
H sent me a text before we left saying he needed time and he didnt know what was going to happen later on. I felt that was an improvement from "We are done and I'm never coming back!".
Today I feel sad and confused on vacation! Im afraid if we do finally work this out my family won't forgive him.
Don't worry about family right now, things will play out how they do. If their relationship suffers right now H will need to put in the work to fix it later, not you. Regardless, now isn't the time to be worrying about that.
Family do have good intentions, but many times they see the pain we are in and just want us to take the fastest route to being happy again. That fast route isn't always the best long term, we know that.
I'm learning to stop letting fears over how the future will play out stop you from enjoying today. Whatever happens will happen regardless, so enjoy the little things you have now.
Enjoy your vacation, don't let your sitch weigh you down right now, just have fun. You deserve it
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
