That lady singing - is she fat?

[Pyrite]

hey Smothy, I know how much this hurts. I get the "I'm so happy" smile as well. Actually she has even told me this outright.

The bottom line is - he is detached! This is how you would act to if you were detached, or I. What hurts maybe is that they got their first, they moved on and told us about it later - so we have to do it all in the midst of grief, without AP to smooth over all the wounds.

It will be different. Your Hs detachment will be yours. My W's happiness will be mine one day. At least for me it might be lasting, at least not medicating, well thats what I tell myself.

It is not easy. It is not fair. It hurts and really there is nothing that will change this. But there are things we can do to heal, and heal well. You know these things already. Remember, you dont have to "achieve", you just need to practice. Guaranteed you will achieve gradually without noticing. Sometimes you will have a significant success. Practice.

Good luck for the next few days Smothy. IF - IF - I am not here know that I am thinking of you. (((Smothy)))