Thanks so much Sunny. EXW suffer PND with all 4 kids and I think if I had handled it differently then I might not be here. At the same time I have improved in ways since BD.

If I'm honest with myself EXW does seem to need me emtionally in some way. She has come forward lots in the last few months but as I tell others , words are cheap. Actions are all important

Your ramblings have helped me on more than one occasion and I always value your posts.

Take care. Rd