Hi Pink. Always good to hear from you. First things first. That sit down drink , long relaxed meal , evening drinks on the balcony and midnight dance in the moonlight WILL happen ( sorry , got carried away there !!!! )


Thanks for the kind words and again I think your right The kids come first in this and we all have to remember this

We are in this and we can only control ourselves It's hard to let go and no of us can do it with ease. I think I struggle so much because EXW seems so low and talks about what a mess she's in. She contacts me most days and even after my NC boundriy she has now started texting me re kids even though she has no need to or can text kids direct. 5 texts today not one needed I was at work with S20 and both Ds S16 had his last exam today and was at home alone. EXW called in to see him and fed dogs and cats and put on oven for me

I believe time is a great healer and I'm hoping this is the case

Take extra care of yourself and the boys Pink. Please post often because I feel you need a little bit more support at the moment.


Take care. Rd. Xxxxxx